Watch Undressing Extraordinary Online Facebook' title='Watch Undressing Extraordinary Online Facebook' />So youve got a major craving for teen porn going on, but feeding that addiction gets expensive when you have to pay to watch those hot young things getting dirty. Shows. See More Shows and Episodes. Sign in Sign up Learn More Year In Sound Advertisers Partner FAQ Download. Mail. Online Tracey Coxs Pillow Talk. Everyone finds it hard to let go of someone they still love desperately. But some people dont just hang on to exes, theyre still clinging to the expectation theyll be reunited, years after their ex has moved on, married or even had children with someone else. Remaining fixated on someone who rejected you long ago is, at the very least, unhealthy psychologically. At its worst, it can tip the sanest person over into Fatal Attraction bunny boiling territory. How do you tell the difference between mourning a lost love and becoming a delusional fantasistHeres seven signs youre well and truly stuck and how to move forward. Its like they never left. The wallpaper on your phone and computer screen is still a photo of the two of you, you talk about them all the time even though its been years since you saw them, every day or week marks an anniversary of something you did together in the past. Three years today, you say wistfully, John and I were in Thailand on holiday. Memories are on a constant loop in your head. If youre constantly playing memories and past conversations or fantasising about what youd say or do if you meet your ex again, youre ruminating. Ruminating means repeatedly focusing and thinking about a situation, its causes and consequences. Circular thinking is another sign youre obsessed youll allow yourself to be led away from the idea that you and your ex will reunite but just when the person trying to talk sense into you thinks theyve got somewhere, you go back to square one with Well thats all well and good but I still know its not over. Youre convinced THEYRE stalking YOUIts not unusual for people hung up on an ex to try to turn it around and pretend its their ex thats hung up on them. How come his car is always parked near mine, one woman I counselled would say about an ex of hers she broke up with four years earlier. Because he lives and works in the same area as you, would be my logical answer but she wasnt having it. She spent her life making sure she was in places where he would be and when he did turn up, shed phone her friends to complain about him stalking her and not letting her move on. Any new relationship that didnt work was because hes somehow got to them to warn them off her. He doesnt want anyone else to have me, shed say. In reality, her ex moved on rapidly and was already living with someone else six months after the split. Even this didnt deter her. The new woman had moved herself in and she could see he wasnt happy about it. The facts didnt matter she had no intention of letting go of the idea that he couldnt let go of her. Some people never do let go. A colleague of mine has been married three times and has two children and still mourns the love of his life that he dated at university. Not a day goes by that I dont think of her, he says. You obsessively stalk on social media. The most common and obvious way to stalk an ex is through social media. Even if theyre savvy enough to make their accounts private, trawl through all their friends Instagram, Snapchat, facebook or twitter accounts for long enough and something will turn up. If they look happy in the photo youve found, its like a dagger plunged through the heart then twisted. If they look unhappy, its worse you convince yourself theyre missing you as much as youre missing them. If you have passwords theyve neglected to change, you might be checking their personal emails as well. You haunt your old haunts. If youre deliberately going to places where theres a high possibility of running into an ex partner or taking detours to go past their house or work place, youre stuck. Ditto hanging out with friends who know your ex well purely to fish for any morsel of information you can get. Youre still friends even though youre single and theyre with someone else. On the surface, this looks very adult and mature. Youve split up but still love each other as friends, why should you throw away all those years together But lets be honest here there arent too many people whove been in intense, long term, committed relationships who can move easily and immediately into friendship. The dumped persons motivations are questionable. Is that friendship really as innocent as you make out Are you sure you arent seeing them in the hope of catching them at a vulnerable moment, hoping they will suddenly realise they never should have let you go Every person you date is compared to them. Needless to say, they never measure up. The longer youve been separated, the more likely it is youve idealised the relationship to the point where no one can possibly compete. Not even your ex could live up to this glossy, edited version of them You answered yes, yes, yes to all of the above The first thing to do is to accept theres a problem. Stop kidding yourself youre doing just fine youre not. But you will be. Heres some practical ways to move forward fast. HOW TO MOVE FORWARDGet some closure. If youre not quite sure what caused the break up, you cant help but keep dwelling on it. Apart from not being able to learn from your mistakes, curiosity alone can drive you crazy. If youre the sort that can handle feeling vulnerable, contact your ex if you know where to find them. Explain youre having trouble getting over them because you dont have a clue why you split. Ask them to tell you, straight out, without sparing your feelings, what it was that caused them to leave. Take it on the chin, analyse it for a week, then drop it. If you cant, consider counselling find one at itsgoodtotalk. If youre too embarrassed to do this or your ex moved countries and funnily enough, didnt leave a forwarding address, ask a close friend who you trust to give you their opinion, without sparing your feelings. If they wont or cant help you, again, book a few sessions with a good therapist. They will help you make sense of it all. The break up was your fault and you cant stop thinking, If only Id done this or that, again, call your ex and ask for another chance. Explain the reason why it didnt work last time for you and your reasons for thinking it might now. 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